America is a Melting Pot

The United States is known for being a melting pot. Meaning lots of cultures and ethnicities come together to form this nation. Memphis is also known for its diversity of people. It seems like no matter the corner you turn, you will always find other internationals, or someone with international heritage. That’s what I love about this country and this city!

There was not much diversity in my hometown because it was a very small town in the Netherlands. Coming here opened my eyes to literally, the whole world. It was amazing to meet so many people from countless different cultures.

Tips on how to learn about other cultures:

• Go to international events and organizations that are present on the UofM campus. There are a number of other organizations other than VISA that serve internationals. You could browse the University’s website for something that would be a good fit for you. Most of this is listed under the Registered Student Organizations under the student engagement tab on the website. (You can google search this also).

• If you see someone that looks like they could be international, just strike up a conversation! I know this task seems daunting, but most Americans are friendly and open to casual conversations. Most internationals in Memphis are open as well, and they would be happy to connect with a fellow international that lives here.

• Read some books about culture. If you are curious about a specific belief or cultural difference you could also directly ask someone from that specific culture. There are also plenty of books you could read on culture and cultural differences. My Master’s degree at the UofM was focused on intercultural communication so I would be happy to suggest some resources to you. Feel free to email me at danisvivian@gmail.com.

• Connect with people on social media. We have the world at our fingertips and are more connected than ever. Utilize this opportunity to meet people online, just be cautious because social media can be tricky. LinkedIn is a networking site for professionals, and I use this a lot for more professional opportunities to connect with people.

• Ask other international friends, or some of your American friends who seem to always have international friends around, if they know someone you can connect with.

• Google fun facts about different countries. You can also visit your local library for resources on cross-cultural interactions. I recommend looking at the Benjamin Hooks Central library, or the University of Memphis’ library.

• And lastly, be curious. Just being curious provides opportunities for learning.

I promise you, you won’t regret using any of these tips! Even if you are not super outgoing, or in your culture you don’t usually talk to strangers, being in Memphis might be one of the few opportunities you get to connect to the world.

VIVIAN BRANDHOFF DANIS • THE NETHERLANDS

Vivian moved to Memphis from the Netherlands in 2011 to be a full-time student-athlete. She completed both her undergraduate degree in Sport & Leisure Management and her Master’s degree in Communication while throwing shot put and discus for the University of Memphis. VISA was the first organization that gave her many international friends, with most of whom she still enjoys hanging out with today. After meeting her American husband here, Vivian stayed in Memphis and now works part-time, while also being a full-time mom to her daughter Nora.